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  • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 4 weeks ago

    4 weeks ago

    What's your Bedtime?

    Going to bed on time isn’t surrendering your freedom!

    It is honoring tomorrow.

    The people who turn the lights out at 10 PM aren’t boring.

    They’re protecting their energy.

    They know that stealing sleep to watch one more episode doesn’t give you control.

    It guarantees you will struggle tomorrow!

    They know that rest isn’t the enemy of free time.…

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    Tolu Ojewunmi, Victor Okwara and Kerain Shah
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    • Reframing sleep as “honoring tomorrow” instead of giving up free time is such a powerful mindset shift. I definitely fall into the trap of staying up late just to get an hour of quiet, but it always backfires the next morning. (For me, it’s definitely overthinking that keeps me up the latest!)

      • Sleep is one of the most underrated productivity tools. Many people trade it for short-term comfort, but end up paying for it the next day with low energy and poor focus.

      • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 5 weeks ago

        5 weeks ago

        The Power of Delegation

        Are you empowering your team?

        Give away one task today that you hate doing, even if they only do it 80% as well as you would.

        Handing off a task isn’t losing control.

        It is empowering your team!

        The leaders who delegate aren’t dodging work. They’re maximizing their impact.

        They know that “it’s faster if I do it myself” doesn’t make you a hero.…

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        Kerain Shah and Tolu Ojewunmi
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        • A lot of people struggle with delegation not because they don’t trust their team, but because they’ve tied their value to doing everything themselves.
          Delegation is less about offloading tasks and more about building capacity.
          For me, the real question is not “can they do it like me?” but “can they grow if I let them try?”

          • A lot of people struggle with delegation not because they don’t trust their team, but because they’ve tied their value to doing everything themselves.
            Delegation is less about offloading tasks and more about building capacity.
            For me, the real question is not “can they do it like me?” but “can they grow if I let them try?”

          • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 5 weeks ago

            5 weeks ago

            The "Quick" Sync

            Declining a “quick chat” isn’t being unhelpful.

            It is guarding your deep work!

            The leaders who block their calendars aren’t hiding. They’re protecting their highest value.

            They know that a five-minute interruption doesn’t just cost five minutes. It costs the twenty minutes it takes to get your focus back.

            They know that you cannot solve…

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            Tolu Ojewunmi and Kerain Shah
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            • ’ve found that being intentional with calendar blocks doesn’t reduce collaboration, it improves the quality of it. You show up sharper and make better decisions.
              Protecting focus time is no longer optional if you want to produce meaningful work.

              • ’ve found that being intentional with calendar blocks doesn’t reduce collaboration, it improves the quality of it. You show up sharper and make better decisions.
                Protecting focus time is no longer optional if you want to produce meaningful work.

              • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 5 weeks ago

                5 weeks ago

                Are You Working from Your Bed?

                Banning the laptop from the bedroom isn’t rigid.

                It’s drawing a line!

                The professionals who keep work out of their sleep space aren’t inflexible.

                They’re defending their peace.

                They know that answering emails under the covers doesn’t make you dedicated.

                It ruins your sleep architecture!

                They know that the bedroom is for recovery, not for revenue.…

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                Tolu Ojewunmi
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                • We underestimate how much our environment shapes our habits. When work and rest share the same space, neither functions well.
                  The real question is not where you work, but what it’s costing you when you don’t separate the two.

                • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 5 weeks ago

                  5 weeks ago

                  The "Just One More" Lie

                  Leaving a to-do list unfinished isn’t failing. It is being human!

                  The business owners who log off with tasks remaining aren’t quitting.

                  They’re being realistic.

                  They know that staying up to finish “just one more thing” doesn’t clear the plate.

                  A new thing always appears. They know that the work is infinite, but their energy is not.

                  We…

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                  Tolu Ojewunmi and Victor Okwara
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                  • I’ve definitely fallen for the “just one more thing” trap, only to realize the to-do list just repopulates anyway. Accepting that the work is infinite but our energy is finite is such a necessary shift for avoiding burnout.

                    • For me, it’s the mental carryover.
                      The real discipline isn’t finishing everything. It’s learning to stop without guilt and trust that tomorrow is enough.

                    • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 5 weeks ago

                      5 weeks ago

                      The Doomscroll

                      Numbing out online isn’t resting. It is draining!

                      The people who put their phones in another room aren’t disconnected. They’re fully present. They know that scrolling for two hours doesn’t recharge your battery.

                      It completely depletes your focus. They know that putting the screen down isn’t missing out on the world. It’s re-entering their own…

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                      Victor Okwara and Kim Sanchez Skinner
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                      • I started with charging my phone on the other side of the house from the bedroom. That way, I’m no longer using it as my alarm clock and checking news or email before my feet hit the floor.

                        My mornings are better, saving screen time at least until breakfast and coffee. Next goal: screen free meals, even when I’m dining alone.

                        Today, a…

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                      • Such a good reminder. A lot of what we call “rest” is really just overstimulation in a different form, and it usually leaves us feeling even more scattered afterward.
                        I like how simple and real this is. Sometimes the best reset is not doing more, it’s just putting the phone away long enough to feel present again.

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                      • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 6 weeks ago

                        6 weeks ago

                        The "Strong Friend"

                        Asking for help isn’t a failure. It is a lifeline!

                        The people who admit they are overwhelmed aren’t fragile. They’re self-aware!

                        They know that carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders doesn’t make them unbreakable. It makes them isolated.

                        They know that being the “strong one” who fixes everyone else’s problems is a quick path to…

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                        Victor Okwara and Tolu Ojewunmi
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                        • Real strength is in the honesty to say “I need help” and the willingness to let others show up for you.

                          • This hits hard. A lot of “strong” people are carrying far more than anyone realizes, and because they handle things so well, people often assume they do not need support.
                            I really like this reminder that strength is not pretending you are okay all the time. Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is be honest enough to let someone show up for you.

                          • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 7 weeks ago

                            7 weeks ago

                            The Notification Trap

                            Muting your phone isn’t ignoring your duties. It is protecting your focus!

                            The professionals who use “Do Not Disturb” aren’t slacking. They’re doing deep work.

                            They know that reacting to every ping doesn’t make you productive. It makes you fractured.

                            They know that silencing the noise isn’t hiding. It’s creating the space to actually get things…

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                            Tolu Ojewunmi
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                            • I’ve found that even a short window of uninterrupted work can completely change the quality of output. It’s not about doing more, it’s about doing better.

                            • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 7 weeks ago

                              7 weeks ago

                              The Commute Buffer

                              Sitting in your car in silence isn’t wasting time. It is a transition!

                              The people who pause before walking through the door aren’t hiding. They’re shifting gears.

                              They know that bringing the stress of traffic into the house doesn’t make you present. It makes you irritable.

                              They know that taking a five-minute breather isn’t selfish. It’s the shock…

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                              Kerain Shah and Tolu Ojewunmi
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                              • Personally, I’ve found that even a few quiet minutes to reset my mind changes how I engage at home. Small habit. Big difference.

                              • Nelson Ingle posted an update in the community Group logo of Self CareSelf Care 7 weeks ago

                                7 weeks ago

                                Sensory Overload

                                Craving a dark, quiet room isn’t weird. It’s recovery!

                                The leaders who turn off the lights and sit in silence aren’t shutting down. They’re healing!

                                They know that absorbing noise, screens, and voices all day doesn’t make you tough. It makes you overstimulated.

                                They know that seeking silence isn’t being anti-social. It’s emptying a…

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                                Kerain Shah and Tolu Ojewunmi
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                                • Silence isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity for clarity and emotional reset.
                                  I’ve found that even a few minutes of intentional quiet can shift my entire state, from reactive to grounded. More leaders need to normalize this.

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